I went to a fantastic talk last night by Karen Kimsey-House, one of the co-founders of the Coaches Training Institute. I have done the fundamentals course of the CTI model, and have had two coaches who have been CTI trained.
It’s a coaching style I like.
It’s one of the reasons I left my job and started on this whole journey over the past year.
But what became clear to me last night was that it is based on a philosophy and a person I reallly like.
Karen was personable and inspirational and down-to-earth.
Her talk was *real*. It wasn’t about selling a dream or an idea or a business.
It was about how some small things can have a huge impact.
She talked about how life is all about relationships – relationships with yourself, with other people and with the world. The acronym she used was AIR
Authenticity
Intimacy
Responsibility
It was a talk that I just soaked up and took into my soul. But the following are a few points that really stood out for me.
- Be totally true to yourself – who you are here and now, not who you want to be, or who you think you should be, or who you think others want you to be.
- Learn to live totally in the moment with yourself.
- Have a relationship with the person in front of you. This means communicate with the person that is there, not the person you want them to be, or you wish they were.
- When you are communicating totally in the moment, you are being who you are, communicating and being intimate with the person that has shown up in front of you at that moment.
- A simple response can have a huge impact. You can take responsibility to change things. You can take responsibility to be yourself and to have an impact on others.
- People want to connect and to know they have made a difference in the world.
- Believe in the human spirit – the capacity of humans to imagine and dream and transform.